1. An example of a social interaction that I have witnessed and taken a part of that exemplifies American culture is how people greet each other. Usually in passing people will just ask “How are you?”, when they do not necessarily mean it. Often times people say that just to be polite when they really just do not want to spend time to interact. People will just say it in passing to be polite and converse. Usually people just respond by saying that they are good and then they ask the same question back. No matter if they are having a great day or a terrible day, the question is usually answered in the same way. It exemplifies our culture of being self-centered and lazy. If we really cared about each person we asked that to, we would stop and actually listen to what they had to say about their lives. Usually we care more about ourselves, and how we feel, or where we need to be, that we just play it off and say it in passing. Other cultures value conversation and will stop everything to have discussions, but we are usually always on the go and tight with time, that we do not make other people a priority.
2. An interaction that exemplifies a group’s culture I am a part of is at my church. I am really involved with my congregation. Everyone goes out of their way to know you. They make sure to spend time talking to you and getting to know you. They ask about your life and actually remember it. They will ask follow up questions later weeks of church. Each church is also different in the way they present themselves. The way they do music, worship, and events are all different. Our church is unique because we do a lot of events that are not focused on worshipping. We have events like going to a shooting range, snowboarding, and tea parties. Other churches and people who do not go to church may think that the way we do things is different just because they do not do it the same way, but that is why there are different groups. If everyone liked the same thing there would not be anything that makes the different groups unique.
3. One thing that I do that shows individuality is how I am a leader at my church. A lot of people would not want to spend time with kids in elementary, middle, and high school. I love spending time with them and getting to know them. I like being a role model to them and trying to do my best so I can show them the way you should act. I do not always do or say the right thing, but I try my best. It shows individuality because a lot of people would not want to spend time worrying about other people. They would just be worried about themselves, especially once you move away to college. I spend a lot of time on the phone or video messaging the girls I mentor from home. If they have a problem, I focus on it and try to help them get through it. Not everyone would want to do things like this because it takes a lot of work. I would never stop doing it, though. I love helping other people as much as I can.
